You can use "SHARE MY PRIVATE ALBUM" when you open a conversation. All photos will need to be approved before they can be shared.

As a Standard Member, you can reply to messages initiated by other PREMIUM MEMBERS for free. You can reply to them on either our website, mobile site or app. But for winks, you can only wink back from their profiles, or you'll have to upgrade to a PREMIUM MEMBERSHIP to start a real conversation.

There are a number of ways to increase your number of matches. First make sure you have created a profile. Once you create your profile, our exclusive technology will compare your profile responses with those of other members to find the profiles that best match you. Already did that? The criteria in your profile may be too specific. Try to broaden your match criteria and search through profiles again.

If you're not getting the responses you are hoping for, consider the following:

1. If you don't have a photo, add some quality photos. This is the fastest and easiest thing you can do to increase your responses. Statistics prove that profiles with photos are up to 20x more likely to receive attention than profiles without.

2. Add more about yourself to your profile so others can know you better. You can also verify your profile. This shows you are who you say you are!

3. We recommend making a lot of initial contacts. It may also help to expand your search criteria in order to find more prospective matches. Be sure and take advantage of the custom search features of the site and experiment with different search parameters. Being too picky will limit your results!